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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 00:31

How does one succeed in life?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Is it true that people who are possessed by demons cannot see them until the demon is cast out? What is the reason for this?

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Why did Amazon initially deny leave of absence to Alexis Scott-Windham, the Amazon worker who survived the New Orleans terrorist attack?

Making more friends is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hangs out with loser friends.

Does being poor build better character than being born rich?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Why do people see porn pics when they can watch porn videos instead?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why do women stubbornly refuse to let men lead, even though they are attracted to the man, and the man both loves and desires them? Why do they get angry and blame the man when he gets fed up and walks away, when it's entirely their own fault?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

That's it for today.

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Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

What are some hard rock or heavy metal bands that are overrated?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Where's the Civil War everyone on the left said would happen?

Procrastinates a lot.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

If a narcissist can't feel remorse, can they ever feel regret for an evil act after going to rehab?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

What are the causes of over sweating?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Single psilocybin trip delivers two years of depression relief for cancer patients - ScienceDaily

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Do you have any attributes quirks sensitivities abilities etc that you've come to learn most people don't experience? E.g. dream with subtext or experience de ja vu regularly or know you experience life very differently from those around you etc?

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Do you regret being married to your current wife?

What I need from you?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

What should I do if I love a girl and she apparently doesn't love me?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Does not procrastinate.